This will be my first post from my BlackBerry so please excuse all the mistakes.
Since the last post was kind off sad and dreary I decided its time for one of “those” posts again. And I will start it like I always do:
So there are these guys… Yes this time its plural… Accept for JuJu there are 4 other guys I recently started to take a liking to. All of them very intelligent and 3 of them studying at Stellenbosch, which is weird for me. Usually I never dated or took interest in the stellenbosch crowd for 2 reasons. 1) I was on the comm of the LGBTI student society and 2) most of them where anyway “out of my league”. But now I am a simple member of Lesbigay and I seriously need to stop worrying about leagues. The other guy I met online (in a way) and lives in Cape Town.
I will not be discussing them in to much detail here, cause I know 2 have read my blog and one has my blog’s like (though I’m not sure if he would check it out).
Let’s start with the Capetonian. Really, really cute and well built, which is kinda why I don’t really think he is into me. Now what to call him to not give it all away… Mr. Green
Now for the Stellenboschers. Let’s start with “Significant” (hope that doesn’t give it away). Strange character and not really my type, but cute in a more scrawny, nerdy way. I have kind of already organised that we will have a “date”. We shell see how that turns out.
Then there is LOUD. Yes he is loud and proud and knows who he is and I love that about him. He is really quite tall and has broad shoulders, and has a wicked sense of humor. Again I have no idea if he likes me or not.
Nu’Guy hasn’t been in stellies very long. He is also built big, broad shoulders, cute glasses. He is a hard worker. And actually a afrikaans ou, and really sweet and I can tell he has a really small and soft hart. Not sure how he feels about me, but he is super cute.
I have never been able to know if someone that I like, likes me. I could always see who is checking who out in a crowd or who is crushing on someone, but when it comes to the guys I like, the signals get jammed. Not only that, I have no idea how to take that step… I am great with placing people in the friend-zone. I can make the best friends in seconds, but have no idea how to get a bf. My first bf was an accident. The second and third fuckups where from online sites, at least there you know you want at least sex and maybe a relationship. But getting “new friends” to actually start a relationship…
Then my biggest problem, father time. Yes time has always been a bitch. And she loves to bite you in the ass. Since in writing up my thesis, I don’t have time to put effort into a new relationship and a new relationship will take a lot off effort and time. Not even to mention the fact that I don’t know where I’ll be in 3 months (though that was how long my longest relationship was)
So what’s your suggestions, how should I approach them if at all and how do I read/test them?
