When the real me comes out of the closet

Lets start with how I have been. The sort answer can be given in one word. THESIS! I have been writing for months and feel like I haven’t gotten anywhere. It has to be handed to my co-supervisor by about the 11th of Nov, and then corrected sent to the external examiners by end of November.

The whole family will be leaving behind Stellenbosch, and moving back to Mossel Bay. Paternal Unit has contract work will about April, the Maternal Unit has recently heard of a job opening at her previous company, in her old department and TheBitch will need to find a job as a dominee. I will have to do the corrections on my thesis in January and my defence, thus will need to spend some time in Stellenbosch. Hopefully some of my friends here will help me out with a rug to lie my body on. From December I will also be trying to find a job, and hopefully in Cape Town, if possible, in Stellenbosch, though I need to get away from this place. I have been here 8 years.

My thesis is just keeping me really busy, I don’t really have time to even see my friends. And I really miss them! I try to make some time, but it’s really hard.

Ok now on to what you actually want to hear. ThePiano man is awesome. We went on the date and spoke for hours about all sorts of shit. I had a lot of fun. He is very cute, about as tall as I am, same age, and going a bald. I love his build… He has a scruffy look to him and is adorable. We then went to the place he was staying stayed up till like 4am, and I slept over. Had the best cuddles in age! we saw each other again a few times and later had the “where is this going?” talk. He just broke up a few months ago with a guy. They did not have the best of relationships but he did love him and they were together for something like 7 years. So he has a lot to deal with at this stage, and is not ready for a relationship. We are now becoming really good friends.

Well that did not stop me and neither will my thesis. I met this guy at a party, MyCub, but didn’t hook up right away. We started chatting on BBM for a while, at first all friendly and then later it got more… personal. He is 19, though very mature and looks older than he is. I can’t call him cute, but he is. He is this hot cub (but is not at all overweight) with a rugby 8th man build, but a bit smaller and a hairy chest. Longish dark hair and is a bit taller than I am. These perfect supple red lips on a cute skew smile and he is always barefoot. *queery wipes the drool of his face*

Anyway… so last night we went for a drink that turned into dinner that turned into me making out with him under Red light. IT WAS HOT! I think we said 3 times that we need to go and then started kissing again and forgot about time, we were standing in the same spot making out for about 1h30.

After taking him back to his Rez (yea rez…) I went to cool off at Benedetto’s be fore going home. Later when I was already in bed, he asked the ”where is this going?” question. Kudos to him for that. We discussed it and since he is still closeted in res and and, and I don’t know what is going to happen after December, we decided to be friends. Though I am allowed to hold his hand, under the table, at mystics…

So yes, im still single and jobless and well, lets face it, horny (thesis writing increases testosterone levels…), but I’m making awesome friends.

Here is an update, quite a few of my friends came through to Mossel Bay for a bit, some are still here and some have left.

On Christmas day we had a fest as usual. This year it was at my reverent uncle’s camp sit. It was nice, after I goined hag1 and ze german on the beach. It was the first time ze german had a summer christmas, so it was a fun and interesting experiance for him. On sunday we went rock climbing at our old spots in Mossel Bay and had a shit load of fun! We wanted to absail but some idiot decided to steel our stainless steel bolts.

Yesterday was DJTech’s bachelor’s party. We dressed him up like a fairy/bee and taped a can to his hand, hung a banner around his neck that said “Need Money 4 Honeymoon” and made him walk through the streets of the busy hartenbos. We where chased out of the campsites so I organised us permition to walk the streets at least. We also went into a bar where one guy baught us all StrawRum shots(80% alcohol) and put R150 into his can.

At the end of the walk we counted the money and it totaled R800 which is awesome. I think we would have made more for him if we could have hone through the camping sights. All went well till we got to the house and decided to change our plans, after that the party went down hill. I won’t go into it, but it was bad and not in a good way.

After the party went south Mr.Metro and I decided to goin his sister for a drink in Mossel Bay. After a while Mr.Metro faded and I staid with his sister and friend. Just before going home we poped into the local gay bar (yes, there is a gay bar inMossel Bay). Again it was mostly full of twinks. I’m not big on twinks so I did not really try to make new friends, but it was good being in the company of the homosexual persuasion.

Any who, that’s it for now.

I havent posted for a while, but it has been a busy few monthes. I decided to do a post from my N900 while chilling alone at a bar in Mosselbay. Here is a bit of an update, I still haven’t finished my degree and hope to be done by next year may. I’m still single and searching shyly for that guy that would sweep my feet from under me.

For now though, I have taken a break from everything. So after a bit of asking around one of my lesbian friends organised 2 MCQP tickets. Yes I do have awesome friends!! I then took a real good buddy, Flux, with me to MCQP, held at the Cape Town Stadium. It was amazing! 6 foors and 9 dancefloors of fun! The theme this yeas was Flower Power so there where people dressed as hippies, flowers, and baking flower everywhere! We watched FlashRepublic live on stage and danced to some awesome trance tunes of Tune Raider. I got home at 5am, making it a great night.

On monday I took the 4 hour drive to the misty and clowdy Mossel Bay for a holiday (hopefully the weather will get better). Tuseday evening at about 1am I couldn’t sleep and decided to go sit at the Big Blue bar next to the see I have been longing to see since June. I started righting this blog when a couple of people came to sit on the misty outside tarrice. Imediatly the one girl came over and invited me to join them. And so I did. While sitting there we heard a phone ringing and found a BlackBerry Curve on the floor. We phoned the number that was trying to ring the phone and the owner told us he lost it at about 9am the morning and would be right over to fetch it. When he arrived he thanked us vigorously and baught a round of shots.

I sat there for a while enjoying the company and decided to leave before being tempted to drink any more, but I think that was a great start to an awesome holiday in my old home town.

I will try to do a few posts while on holiday to tell you the happenings.

Since it will be all from my phone aplication I can not garentee the quality of the posts though.

Hope all of you enjoy your holiday